For the INTJ flirting and dating is often much different than it is for the more emotionally expressive types. There are some stereotypes out there saying that INTJs are not interested in dating and can be someone who wants to be sllo, but that is not connected to their type necessarily. There are plenty of INTJs who do want to find a romantic partner, and who care about being in an important relationship. When it comes to flirting the INTJ does often try to impress the person they are interested in. They do a lot of research on someone when they are truly interested and search for different pieces of information about them. They want to know who this person is completely and will spend a lot of time and energy looking into them. This is when the INTJ truly interested in someone and can likely see themselves building a real connection with them. Asking a lot of questions and really diving into who the person is, is often a sign of flirting and serious interest for the INTJ.
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